John Gray: Holding Back Leads to Losing the Love

Relationship expert John Gray discusses How Holding Back Leads to Losing the Love. Video clip from Beyond Mars and Venus DVD.

Dr. John Gray points out that once men feel hurt, they will hold back and that once that happens, the relationship starts to fail. When a man feels that his needs are not being met, he will hold back.

Dr. Gray emphasizes the fact that men are simple and that women are complicated. Women just need to tell men what they want. But women are not taught to do that, and it feels better by not asking and just having the man figuring out and doing what she wants.

During dating, the man was doing all these little things and the woman was not asking. But when in a marriage, the man stops doing the little things and the woman gets upsets and thinks, "Why do I have to ask, I didn't have to ask before".

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